Rock n’ Roll, Guys and Dolls.
Let’s Roll.
Your problem is that you live your life as a slave, subservient to the current thing.
You do not think for yourself.
My lane is relationships, look at the lies you tell yourself.
WOMEN:
I don’t need no man. #Lie
Bullsh!t, you wish you had someone too.
I’ll say I’m up for whatever, so I don’t scare him off. #Lie
You want a relationship.
I won’t say I need commitment. #Lie
You truly desire marriage.
MEN:
I only need sex. #Lie
You crave emotional connection too.
I’m better off on my own. #Lie
You’d give an arm and a leg to have the admiration of a woman who loves you.
I don’t need a woman. #Lie
Your life would be better with love in your life.
If you lie, you deprive yourself of the life that you could have.
How is that living, to be delusional with only your lies to comfort you.
Live your life, the way you want, with desire and motivation.
We get to choose, how we live IN THIS LIFE WE ONLY LIVE ONCE.
Live Life Your Way.
I’ll give you a mini example from my day. I had tea at the bar by myself.
I often encourage my clients to do things on their own. Have dinner alone, get a drink by yourself. Don’t deprive yourself just because you’re single or you don’t have a friend to hang out with in that moment. Live your life.
I don’t tell my clients to do anything I won’t do myself. Not in this. I dine alone and I’ll get a drink by myself. I work hard, I have 3 jobs and I deserve food too. Not only do I do this, but I also take it a step further.
While others feel that they have to explain themselves for why they don’t drink alcohol, I make zero apologies and I don’t explain myself unless asked, for why I don’t drink.
I like to sit at the bar, non-alcoholic drink in my hand. By myself. I often order tea. That’s right. I sit at the bar alone and I have tea.
Many individuals will never venture out alone, they won’t go anywhere unless they have the crutch of a friend, family member or a date.
Many also worry about what others will think, if they don’t drink alcohol. Or they need liquid courage for their business dinners or nights on the town.
How’s that living life your way, if you can’t go anywhere unless you have someone to be with and if you’re too worried about what others will think of you. That’s being a slave, to other’s opinions of you. You’re subservient. You’re not living life on your own terms. You need a crutch, and you cannot be alone.
I think most individuals would benefit from the ability to do things on their own and the ability to be alone. It’s a good skill to cultivate. And by this, I don’t mean alone in your house or by yourself in your apartment. I mean, go out in public by yourself, know how to do this. Skills.
Of course, I like arm candy too. I get drinks with friends too. I enjoy dinner with someone interesting too. That makes me normal.
But when I want to, I can also do things on my own. Alone.
You’ll find me at the bar with my tea or non-alcoholic cocktail.
Life your life the way you.
Before you can ever get to the big time or do something courageous, you need to step out on a limb for the mini things.
How on God’s green earth, do you think you get to the BIG THINGS. You start small, that’s how. You go for the low hanging fruit. You make a thousand micro decisions before you ever get to the macro one.
I’ve been public for my beliefs. I’ve tackled topics others won’t touch with a 10-foot pole. I’ve been ostracized and criticized. I get far more negativity than the person who’s vanilla, that person won’t make a stand for their beliefs. How do you think I got to being baby brave? How do you think I put Dr. Peter McCullough and Dr. Paul Alexander on my Stories podcast? How do you think I put Alex Krainer and Kyle Reyes on my Masculinity Crisis series?
I was able to put the best in the world on camera with me because years prior, I started out with smaller things. I would go to Francesca’s in the medical district in Chicago, sit by myself at the bar, with my non-alcoholic drink. I did things on my own, so that later I could stand on my own. Live life my way.
While many are subservient, I fight every damn day to be baby brave.
Say “No” to pronouns in my linkedin bio.
Say “No” to putting a black square on fakebook for marxist BLM.
Say “No” to the covid vaccine with its 1291 side effects listed on Pfizer documents.
If you want to Live life your way, you need to start with the mini things before you ever get to the macro ones.
Why yes, I get tea at the bar. I don’t care that others need liquid courage or won’t go anywhere without the crutch of being with someone. I do things my way.
Life is for living.
Rock n’ Roll. Let’s go!
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Photo: Tea at the bar.
Thank you. 👍