Dating Down
The new buzz phrase is “dating down” which Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger popularized. Patti says her ex-boyfriends didn’t make as much money as she does, now she no longer wants to “date down” and wants to “level up” by dating men who are her monetary equals.
My lane is relationships. I am ruthlessly pragmatic which is why I’m good at my job.
Superficial
I have women telling me what doesn’t impress them on a date.
I have men telling me who’s just sex to them.
Serious
I have men in bitter child custody battles, they want to see their kids.
I have women in domestic violence situations, yet they will not leave.
My lane is relationships. whether it’s doing a cold read on a male’s Bumble dating profile for my female client in therapy or hearing about a guy’s plan to get the attention of his crush in another state in my Life Coach, my work is romance and relationships, Love + Lust and all that jazz.
My clients tell me what they like and what they don’t like in new potential partners or their long-standing partner. I’ve had several clients on my caseload for over 3 years, seen the arc of their affairs, divorces, casual dating and also their new relationships. I routinely talk to clients before their break-up, during the split, and in the aftermath in both therapy and my Life Coach.
I’m aware of the wish lists and the desired requirements, I also see what people do in real life. I try to keep apprised of the latest dating trends, with the latest adage being the dreaded “dating down.”
It’s simple.
You get your equivalent.
You want better, than be better yourself.
My advice for ladies, instead of worrying about height requirements and income desirability that you think you need in a man, focus on if that man values family.
My advice for gentlemen, instead of zeroing in on big boobs and legs a mile long that you think you want in a woman, focus on if that woman values family.
Vetting for family will enable you to learn about intangibles and core character that would actually make you happy in a relationship.
Family is the catch all, an excellent way to vet future partners.
If that woman values family, she’s probably not going to be that female who’s fine with killing a baby in utero.
If that man values family, he won’t tolerate the mutilation of minors in the evil transgender agenda.
If that woman values family, she’ll be the woman who’s loyal to her man if he lost his job or all his money because he refused to bend the knee during the lockdowns in 2020 and coercion of the covid vaccine in 2021.
If that man values family, he will be the man who will protect and provide for the woman in his life as well as his children.
Family is an excellent way to vet for intangibles and core character.
Every single person wants as good as they can get.
We all want to be proud of our romantic partner.
It’s perfectly acceptable to want quality for yourself.
If you turn up your nose at “dating down” as a man, avoid females who claim they want rich men but are too dumb to realize that Cackles the Covidiot will ensure that all the men will be poorer because you don’t get to keep your money under communism.
If you turn up your nose at “dating down” as a woman, avoid males with pronouns on their social media bios as they’re the ones who’ll be too weak to make a stand against climate hoax, election fraud and invasion on the US southern border.
If you don’t want to “date down” then up your standards. Your requirements should be for something that matters in your actual life, not superficial like her big boobs or his bank account. Have requirements for the following:
FAITH IN GOD
LOVE OF COUNTRY
FAMILY OVER EVERYTHING
That’s how you attract the best, when you’re quality too! When you love God, Country, Family you will attract because you will have intangibles and core values that make you special.
For sure, avoid “dating down” and avoid females who’re too stupid to realize communism means there won’t be any rich men left and males who’re too dumb to realize that they’ll be replaced by illegals flooding the country.
Have requirements, but make sure your standards are for God, Country, Family. That’s how you stand out, also attract the best!
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Photo: Prime examples of “dating down.”
Fani Willis the DA in Georgia who was sleeping with the married man.
Taylor Swift who signed off as “Childless Cat Lady” with her beta male boyfriend who took 20 million to shill for Pfizer, the covid vaccine has 1291 side effects.
Kamala Harris who slept with a married man, heels up was her way to the top.
Gwen Waltz who speaks to Americans as if they’re preschoolers while her loser husband signed off on the most egregious transgender policies in MN.
I’m not a fan of dating down. You should aim higher too.
A good relationship market for you might be women on dating apps that say “no conservatives or no Trump supporters”. They then complain about why they can’t find where the good men are and don’t realize they targeted beta males. Each one of these women would benefit from alot of coaching and therapy.
Good article Rachel.