There isn’t a woman on the planet that doesn’t want to be the dream girl.
Women have this inherent need to feel special.
Here’s the brutal truth, you will not attract every man.
That’s OK, Doll. Because you don’t need many men, you just need one man to adore you.
I know you’re crying sometimes, that man broke your heart just like your ex-boyfriend disappointed you. So many men, yet endless mediocrity.
Just like you will find many average Joe’s, not every man is going to be enamored with you, it goes both ways. It can be circumstance, personality, history, bias and a host of things that you may not be aware of or maybe you are.
You won’t be every man’s cup of tea nor will you like every guy that crosses your path.
The beauty in selectivity, is that this means there’s someone for everyone. We all have our unique tastes, it also wouldn’t kill us to go outside our comfort zones. Bottom line, there’s someone for you too.
Just because that guy passed you over, doesn’t mean you aren’t amazing. It means you and that man are not a fit. Better to know now rather than later, thank your lucky stars. For every man you find out right away, that he’s not for you, the closer you will be to finding someone who is.
I know you want to be the Dream girl.
Every woman does.
But dreamy doesn’t mean it’s meant for all, it means you only need one who is special.
I got stars in my eyes and I dream big too.
Put out into the universe everything you hope for, so that your dreams come true.
From my heart to yours, I hope all your dreams come true. Keep dreaming.
HUGS. xo
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