Exclusivity

Exclusivity in romance.

The matchmaker in the below photo, gets a question which is:

1. The male wants to be exclusive

2. The female is holding him off

For brevity, not giving a play by play of “he said” vs “she said” for the reasons given, not to be exclusive.

It’s simple.

That lady is holding out for better, keeping the guy in the placeholder spot, in case that’s as good as she can get, she may need to settle for him.

Men do this often, but women can play that game too.

Certain romantic scenarios call for nuance, but I’m stating what’s obvious for the most, not the exception.

Here’s the brutal truth.

For a Top Tier man or a truly stunning woman, you don’t wait, you move your a$$ and lock it down.

If you weren’t ready before, you now get ready STAT for a truly incredible catch.

Nothing wrong with trying to persuade someone, but don’t be so stupid, as to believe absolute horse sh!t.

If you want to wait, that’s up to you.

But that person is looking for better and perhaps they will settle for you.

Not being ready, weighing your options, being to scared to commit are code words for lack of interest in you.

Even if you’re scarred and scared from your past, you get over that STAT if it’s a truly stunning woman or Top Tier man.

Even if you’re anti commitment, you change your tune, if that person is super special.

So go ahead, date the person who’s not ready, but don’t be delusional about it.

It’s simple, Guys and Dolls.

Incredible catches are snatched up quickly, smart people understand that, they move their a$$ to lock down an incredible catch.

You get over your issues quick, when you know that person won’t be single for long, if you fumble the ball with them.

Don’t be delusional, keep dating that person who refuses to be exclusive with you, but understand exactly where you stand.

Photo: the answer is the female doesn’t want exclusivity because she’s looking for better, next time don’t ask the matchmaker, get a Therapist