You can always tell who’s going to make it, who will be all right.
The tell, the sense of self.
Self-esteem, that ability to be seen, to feel worthy of love, emanates from having a sense of self.
When you suffer, when your demons or your past seem insurmountable to you, a sense of self will guide you through that chaos, the pain you feel in that moment. You will be OK.
If you lack a sense of self, you feel lost. More succinctly, you feel lonely. To become healthy, you need to find yourself and own your sense of self. That begets self-esteem and turns into real confidence, that inward belief in yourself.
At the core of much of your pain, is lacking a true identity rooted in yourself. Find that, you will be OK.
The tell, those who are going to make it, is a sense of self.
When you inwardly lack a sense of self, perhaps you were not loved unconditionally, it’s hard. But not insurmountable. I know, I help you do it, it can be found, that sense of self that always exists within you.
We all try to do this, find ourselves and be our best selves. It’s very important, we need to love ourselves, so that we have enough in the tank, for others too. Care for self, then for others, that’s the sequence.
I respect Theo Von for going there, vulnerability to share. He put out into the Universe, out loud for others to hear, his desire for self-love and his longing for a sense of self. The karmic energy exchange, will be that the Universe, will reward him for his authenticity. The gift of understanding, that others will show to him, will help him process pain. He can heal himself because when you love yourself, you also find yourself. Good job, to this brave man, the Universe will reward him. He is trying, that’s the foundational step. Theo will be OK.
Photo: Theo Von, if you need help, reach out to me, I’ll see you pro bono. You are gifting the world your story, I’ll help you if you need it.
