Single and Selfish

Single has become synonymous with selfish in the woke iteration that is present in today’s degenerate society.

It’s in vogue in modern times to act like you don’t care and that you know better.

You are straight up praised if you push the party line of the following:

• Marriage is restrictive

• Monogamy is boring

You are mocked and bullied if you promote the family, if you advocate for marriage and monogamy.

I’m annoyed with the dating coaches who add fuel to the fire by pushing selfishness. They mock marriage, tell you to do what you want, to only care about yourself. That’s the epitome of selfish, to live only for self.

Single has become synonymous with selfish in the woke iteration that is present in today’s degenerate society.

For every dating coach and self-styled relationship guru, they better hope to God that at least half the populace rejects that selfish approach to romance.

This is the truth, as real as death and taxes, that society is better on the foundation of family.

There is nothing wrong with being single.

But you are more selfish when you are single.

You can be a good person, also single.

But you will never have that death to self, that unconditional love that you will feel towards your own child when you have a family. To put yourself aside, to be less selfish, to care for another tiny human who depends on you, will do more to kill your selfishness than anything else in the world.

A few selfish people, living for self when they are young, I don’t see a problem with that. It’s part of the growing up process, to be innately selfish is also human nature.

But a planet of entirely selfish singles, trust me, that would be a societal breakdown of epic proportions because family is the foundation of society.

For all the dating coaches and relationship gurus who promote living for self, you have a selling point that people want that. It gets YouTube hits and Instagram views because selfishness sells, it’s innate to what humans want. People are selfish.

Advocating for God, Country, Family is not on brand for what people want when they are selfish. To be a parent and care for tiny humans, means that you need to deprive yourself of your selfish nature over and over again. No wonder that message doesn’t resonate with the entitlement crowd, those who prioritize indulging in self.

To be a good parent, is to also develop discipline and it involves deprivation of self in order to provide for your children.

No, that message doesn’t jive with the selfish crowd.

Now in the modern era, we are at peak selfishness. It’s the “gimme gimme gimme” crowd who “want want want” in a degenerative diatribe.

And yet, you and I both know, that while selfish is appealing, it’s not stable for society.

It’s popular to bash marriage and monogamy, most of the dating coaches and relationship gurus mock it.

But I won’t back down.

Because I know that a society without family, is one you don’t want to be in.

That includes the selfish single guy and gal, not even they, will want to be in the chaos that would ensure in a world that was entirely selfish.

Be selfish and Single. Free country.

But you better pray to God that at least half the populace embraces marriage and monogamy because that’s the bedrock of a stable family. You need family, it’s the foundation of society.

The selfish types give their hard-earned cash to dating coaches and relationship gurus who mock monogamy and marriage. Big circle jerk, being told what you want to hear, that you can live for self and be selfish with no consequences.

Selfishness sells.

Single has become synonymous with selfish in the woke iteration that is present in today’s degenerate society.

But just know that being shallow yourself and living selfishly, will not make you happy.

Family is what will make you happy.

I said it. I stand by it.

rhmaldonado.com

Photo: two podcasters giggle when the self styled love guru psychologist poo poos marriage

In the zeitgeist, if you mock marriage and monogamy, you get praised and you also make money

In reality, being single and selfish is the gateway to suffering