If you ever wanted to know what women think before a first date, it probably goes something like this. What do I wear Text a pic of the outfit to a girlfriend Change said outfit Perhaps not all the time, but accurate at least some of the time. Of course, experienced daters or jaded daters, perhaps they’re less enthused about what to wear on their first date.
What about the women who love to double stack their dates and have one guy pay for their fine dining and then they go hook up with the other dude who bought them nothing? It's a zero sum game.
Dating culture is ridiculous. In the time since I've been reading your Substack, I went from unemployed with no car to well employed and back on wheels but my feelings about dating haven't changed. Women who hop from apps to hookups are not marriage material so why should any man look for love on apps?
Funny I read your post and then the first thing I see on X is a list of "28 places women refuse to go on a first date" 😂 https://x.com/ywomendeservles/status/1805759892965441991?s=46
What about the women who love to double stack their dates and have one guy pay for their fine dining and then they go hook up with the other dude who bought them nothing? It's a zero sum game.
Dating culture is ridiculous. In the time since I've been reading your Substack, I went from unemployed with no car to well employed and back on wheels but my feelings about dating haven't changed. Women who hop from apps to hookups are not marriage material so why should any man look for love on apps?
Go read someone else’s Substack if you want to whine about life
Plenty of people will wallow in victimhood with you, there are more Debbie Downers than there are positive souls
I write to help, to encourage, to promote responsibility and dreams
This substack isn’t for you
Go whine somewhere else
Nah!
Well said all around Rachel.