Not My Job

I am a Therapist licensed for clinical work and I own my Life Coach. I will say this outright to my clients if the occasion calls for it.

NOT MY JOB.

It can be in various contexts but the two most common is that I won’t support:

1. Delusion

2. Lack of responsibility

NOT MY JOB.

I will support my clients. I will help them process pain to get to pleasure. As long as it’s not illegal, I will help my clients get what they want within the realm of what’s realistic for them. It’s client decision, their affair/divorce/break-up, it’s their life not mine, they get to choose. I support my clients; I help them process the decisions they make.

I won’t aid in delusion; I won’t condone lack of responsibility. I do not lie to my clients.

NOT MY JOB.

How it looks in the real world.

• Do you want to leave your wife or husband, you’re choosing the affair partner over your spouse? I’ve seen it go both ways, sometimes the spouse is chosen and sometimes the affair partner is picked.

• Do you want to fix your relationship or marriage after catching your partner cheating? I’ve seen it go both ways, sometimes the couple works hard to repair and other times they throw in the towel.

Doesn’t matter if it’s marriage, exclusive relationship or casual situationship, I’ve seen people grapple with who to choose and how to act/react. For me, as long as it’s not illegal, I help my clients get what they want within the realm of what’s realistic for them. I help them process the decisions they make. It’s their life not mine, they have the right to choose, that’s self-determination.

I won’t aid in delusion; I won’t condone lack of responsibility. I do not lie to my clients.

NOT MY JOB.

I’m ruthlessly pragmatic, which is why I’m good at helping my clients get what they want within the realm of what’s realistic for them. It’s always your choice, it’s your life not mine, you make the decisions for your own life. But I will not lie to you.

Each person decides based on their own experiences and individualized bias, how they will act/react. The stronger your sense of self and the more inwardly confident you are, the easier it will be for you to delineate between what you will and won’t do.

Decide what you will accept and what you won’t tolerate from your romance, your friends, your work. If you’re pragmatic and realistic, there’s a good chance that you’ll get what you want in life.

Your quality of life will increase or decrease based on your ability to choose wisely in romance, friends, and work. Your ability to delineate between what you will and won’t do, will allow you to be ruthlessly pragmatic and realistic. It will also often get you what you want.

Figure out what you will tolerate and accept vs what you won’t.

Your job vs not your job.

For example, in this video the Prime Minister of Hungary, Viktor Orban says “No, that’s not my job.” He’s refusing to bend the knee to globalist elites or European bureaucrats. That’s a man with a strong sense of self and inward confidence; he will do the right thing for his people in his country.

Video: Victor Orban quote, “NOT MY JOB.”