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Why do you think it is that both men AND women treat each other so poorly? Seems to me that society in general has become crass, selfish and are just using each other. We lack virtue. Again, why is this? Not to sound like a bible thumper but I have a feeling that its roots can be traced to when we removed God from the public square. With a “supreme being” within the mix there were standards (protocols if you will) as to how one was expected to view/treat the other. Without this we see/experience all of today’s gaming. Funny thing is that there is nothing new under the sun and this dynamic has ebbed and flowed since the beginning. The pendulum always swings back… problem is it’s going to take a long time. Pax

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And the whole point is the marriage is a partnership. It should be 50-50. She has the right to voice her opinions you have the right and you need to work together on those things and do it together. That’s what a marriage actually is and it’s a 50-50 sharing. It’s like being with your best friend. That’s the greatest time in the world.

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That's not what this substack is about

This is PRE MARRIAGE

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I feel the woman is equal to the man it’s a partnership and the thing is if she wants to voice her ideas and thoughts about marriage she should be able to and he should listen to her and if she wants that that much then it’s probably a good idea to go on through And get married. Now I was a little bit wild. It’s a long story but it’s funny. I got married at midnight and a jail in Mexico and 1969 and I’m actually right in the story about it. Called Midnight in Mexico.

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Either person may say, "don't go breaking my heart. The older one gets, the harder it will be.

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Incorrect

Heartache isn't dependent on age

If you are more bitter as you get older, that's on you

Being broken hearted can happen at 20, 40, 60 any age

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Yes.

Great breakdown

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