The prevailing understanding of a gold digger is a person who doesn’t care about you, only what you can materially provide for them.
In the debauchery that is modern dating, not only are gold digger attitudes lauded, there’s a whole industry that teaches you to prey on the weak, think beta male Andrew Tate pimping + pushing pornography on the youth. Disgusting and demonic, unhealthy for you and heinous for society.
If you want a nice example of a gold digger, watch the clip. The female, presumably from Mexico, praises her home country and bashes the United States. She says “We just move here to make more money” as she’s pounding home the point with her pointy claws, that she doesn’t give a sh!t for the country that gives her opportunity.
If you’re a man or a woman, you want to assess whether or not someone is a gold digger, monitor for these signs.
Gimme attitude
Entitlement attitude
Selfish attitude
Remember, if a person is only in it for them, they will discard you, the moment you’re no longer useful to them.
I caution my Therapy and Life Coach clients, the more blatant your romance is geared towards the transactional, the higher the chance of failure for that relationship. If that person does not like or love you, they’re solely with you for what you give them, that’s transactional with an expiration date.
Highly transactional, that’s an expiration date waiting to happen in a relationship.
I said it. I stand by it.
Be smart, assess for that gimme attitude of greed, entitled behavior and selfishness in a potential new Boo. Those things may mean that the person is with you solely for the material things that you can provide for them. When you can no longer do that or if they find someone better, don’t expect loyalty, expect them to dump you and run. That’s what selfish people do, they’re entitled and greedy.
And puffy huffy lady with her pointy claws, squawking about what she will and won’t do as she resides in the US, I’m super curious, was there fraud in her visa application. How did she get her status in the US, did she misrepresent herself on the visa documents or sneak into the country illegally. I think Stephen Miller, Marco Rubio and Kristi Noem might want to take a look at her credentials, how she came to be in the US.
If you refuse to assimilate and appreciate the United States, you should not be allowed to reap the benefits of living in this country.
Pointy claw lady, better hope her gimme selfish entitlement doesn’t lead to mistakes in her visa application. If she has fraud on her original documents, this administration can strip her of her visa and status to stay. No, she doesn’t deserve to visit or live in America. She is not the type of immigrant that will make America better, she’s your typical gold digger.
Predator, user, taker.
Gold digger.
I suggest you avoid those types of people in romance. It’s bad for your wallet and your health.
Video: example of the quintessential gold digger, all the hallmarks with the gimme attitude, entitlement and selfishness on blatant display
